We are different
Who We Are
We are a members-only dating app for those who are ready to find their other half. Enjoy the convenience and flexibility of an app while meeting like-minded people in real life. Our goal is to connect ambitious, down-to-earth people together who share the same core fundamentals.
What Makes Us Different
We believe in individuality, privacy, and the importance of finding like-minded people. Meeting that special someone should feel safe and exciting! Our core values are respect, kindness, and trust, and we want to create a safe space for you. We are not for everyone – we are a service tailored for committed, hardworking people who are looking to take that next step in their personal lives. We are more than a dating app, we offer IRL experiences so you can actually meet people in real life (IRL).
How We Screen Our Members
We have a comprehensive application process, designed to ensure that every member makes our community more diverse and dynamic. We verify each member and make sure they agree to our terms and conduct policy. This helps us ensure that all of your conversations are safe and respectful. Failure to comply with these terms results in account termination. We hope that this helps our members feel safe and comfortable chatting with their matches.
Be apart of a private, members-only community that share the same values.
Find curated matches - based on YOUR values.
No more swiping – and not meeting anyone in-person
A different approach – unlike traditional dating apps, we offer IRL experiences so you can network and and meet your partner in real life. (Check out our events roster to see whats next and how to RSVP.)
Your profile will NEVER be public!
Finding the ONE always feels right when your circle approves. We allow you to invite your single and non-single friends to your circle to help you find the ONE. It can be fun if you are open to it.
Privacy & Security
Once you and your match accept, a private encrypted chat is created between the two of you – so you can talk with the comfort of knowing that your interactions are 100% encrypted.
We are Sharia-Compliant!
You can add a chaperone and let them view your match activities. No vulgarity allowed. If reported, we delete profiles immediately. We are committed in helping you find the right one in a modern and modest way!
Member Conduct & Safety
We carefully screen every applicant, and do our best to ensure that our prospective members fit and agree with our core guidelines and values. It’s rare that our members fail to comply with these guidelines. However, if a member is found in violation of the conduct policy, their account is immediately terminated. Our main focus is building a strong community by making sure that our members feel safe.
Managing Your Membership
If you choose to cancel your membership, you will have until the end of your billing cycle to use NIM.
If you’d like to renew your membership, you can easily do so by opening up your NIM profile and paying your account charge. It’s as simple as two clicks!
Each member is expected to act with respect, which includes respecting the privacy and trust of our members. There are many places on the internet where there is no expectation of certain behavioral standards – this is NOT such a place. At NIM, you are not just another member, you are a part of a larger community. We expect our members to behave accordingly. If you are being harassed or disrespected by another member, we strongly encourage you to report them to our team. We have no space for that behavior at NIM. .
We also reserve the right to suspend or remove any members that we no longer feel follow the values indicated when they joined NIM.
Process for Admission
Anyone interested in joining NIM must fill out a two-step application. Once applications are received, they are assessed based on a combination of algorithmic values and input from our designated committee. Committee members are anonymous to one another, and our committee is comprised of people of various backgrounds, ages, and interests. Application decisions can take anywhere from a day to a few months.
Once you are approved and complete your profile, you may be asked to select a membership plan to move forward based on your preference.
To offer you personally curating profiles, invites to our events and security. Our membership starts at $39.99/month or $99.99 for 3-months.
Our Screening Process
We receive applications from all over the world, which can make member selection complex and challenging. This is why we use a two-fold approach, employing a committee as well as our constantly-evolving algorithm. This enables us to assess our applicants’ backgrounds and credentials, as well as their connection to the community. We consider every application that we receive, and we are always working to find new ways to improve our screening process.
Regarding Our Waitlist
If your application is currently on the waitlist, please know that everyday people are removed from it, and welcomed to the community. Continual review of the waiting list remains a vital part of creating a vibrant community.